For real
There’s no “for real”
It all just seems real. You choose what’s happening and what isn’t.
Same with problems. Either a task with a solution, or a fact of life, the background to what happens. Pull the good over to your side. The rest is a painted backdrop.
It doesn’t matter how things are “for real”. Any situation can be turned any way you like. Money is just a drawing. Just treat the source as endless.
For real, all is well, and everything is a lesson. Though there’s no “for real”.