Question reality
What it seems and what it is
Everything you see, touch and smell is only yourself. You only feel what your body produces when it contacts the world outside. Zero contact with so-called objective reality.
Advaita means “not two”. A wave plays at being separate from the ocean. Fun game — until the wave starts drowning.
Anya and I once felt a single consciousness. At some point I lost her, then saw her again — and the world just lit up around me. Believing me is optional. Check for yourself.
Your life works the same way. What it seems to be, and what it is.
Ask what is looking.